In my personal opinion,modern world is a make believe one!Hence, it is imperative to sculpt one's public image in a cautious manner and accord the appropriate insight to the invidious gaze for getting viewed in the right perspective.The onus lies on the impessario itself.Cautious people engage the inherent efficacy of the suitble media and apt selection of the words to communicate his or her thoughts.
To grab the attention and engender curiosity or to make one understand the point of view in considerations, one normally employs the highly effective communiction tools in the face of impact articles, blurbs, meet the press-do and other equally potent Public Relation means to influence the opinion of target receivers with a motto to be comprehended in a pristine way.
Inveighing against the Scallywag or simpleton wil not serve the purpose.One needs to blame oneself if one gets misconstrued by the target audiences.
It is not enough to be good, rather what is good should appear and appeal in the exact spirit and letters to the others.One can not afford to leave one's individual image to judged in the furtile imagination of the gawky public vision.
Insincere vision interprets and reinterprets and relying on one's own outlook, considers the overcooked inglorious self-justified interpretation of the given facts as the "Reality".To understand it in perspective, some illustrations can be considered.
A public display of the affection by planting a kiss on the forehead of a beautiful girl may call for a myriad reactions from the public at large.To give a right meaning to that kiss,the person in action will have to make sure to solemnise his act by cautiously selcting a "Raksha Bandhan' Day or the Valentine one!
To absolve himself from the slanderous charge, British Premier David Cameron took the pain to refute the opporobrium.He avered that he may have interacted with Rebekah Brooks in several social gatherings .but he was sure of himself that he had not seen her in her pyjamah.Here, the quote is bound to be misconstrued!
Dominique Strauss Kahn stands a felon in the eyes of the world-community , but his betterhalf Anne Sinclair refuses to accept the said opinion. Furthermore, In the Dominique Stauss-esque act of Arnold Schwarznegger his legitimate wife Maria Shriver took the affront and had preffered to walkout from the wedlock.
An unassuming potter offers a statuette of a deity to a worshipper by charging a paltry sum.The devotee in question offers his prayers to the same deity to be answered in the form of the monitised blessings to the tune of billions or trillions!
In the state of ecstasy, saurabh Ganguli took off his jersey to express his jubiliation at ground of Lords.The moral brigade of the civity finds it in poor test.
Normally, in the state of unbelievable exhilarations,eyes shed tears. Certainly,it doesn't concur in the fitness of the occasion.A tearful eye can give a wrong impression to the viewers.
These are the grotesque illustrations of visualisation of a fact from one's own perspective.
The dictionary meaning is not sufficient to give the soul or the approprite meaning to the expressed words. It is the acceptance of the persona of an individual in the eyes of the target audience or the intention loaded behind the words that give them the intended meaning.
The same expression earns accolade to somebody, whereas the poor soul gets lampooned.Scorns regale nonplussed nonentity for the misconstructions!
The casuality is the eloquent voice that takes refuge in the taciturnity. The fear of getting misinterpreted weighs heavy on the act of the interactive social bondings.The fearful psyche retires in the comfort of the confinement of four walls of one's own room.
Culture and education also contribute to the misconstruction of communication.Hillary Clinton flashes her smile to stamp her total command of the situation on her diplomatic trip to acountry.The healty diplomatic gesture is misconstrued as smirk or smugness.
A commercial spoof enacted in a lighter vein against a particular liquor brand had finished in a acrimonious wrangles.It is believed that the said act has besmirched the pride of offended family and the sensibity of the community in general.
The irony is that the Advertising standards Council of india (ASCI) has failed to find the same under its scanner.
Most of the time, people feel wronged and sensible image suffers the severe jolt.
In the cathartic fit of anger,rumbustious Delhites speak swear words and thus become a picture of rustic dross.The cuss expressed in catharsis may not form the basis to judge the actual self of an individual in said situation.
The studied silence of PM Manmohan Singh agonise The erudite journalist Barkha Dutt. She prodes him to communicate with the people.There is valid apprehension that public find him a non-assertive, remote controlled or a weak PM.But ,the truth may not be the perceived one.She asserts that said silence is bound to be misconstrued in the public eyes.
Hence, it is imperative to honour the wisdom of the people and help them to understand the confused reality.A self regulation is a must and people mustn't be taken for a ride in the garb of the hyperbole!People deseve a semblance of respect and they mustn't be left to lurch in alleys of the perceived ignorance of the actual fact or otherwise compelled to restrain or retort the philosophically correct offender at the first place.